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Healing Reactivity Yours and Your Dogs


Doorbell.  Amazon package.  Absolute mayhem is breaking out!


Nicole is good with dogs.  She’s been training and rescuing them all her life.  But there’s more going on under the hood.  Dogs have feelings.  They have a language.  And they can transform just like that... at least they can in my book, and that’s why Nicole contacted me through  my website.


More than calmness and control, she wanted to know how to do what I do.  


Nicole wanted to communicate with them.  She wanted to understand their body language, to develop her own style, and to transform her pack.  


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Learn how to Become the peaceful Alpha Your Dog Needs and Respects

Meet Nicole and her Rescue Dogs

Like being able to take a piece
of bacon out of the fridge,

 put it on the floor, and use simple body language that makes your pet lie down and watch you, totally relaxed.

Or using certain angles when 
you walk your dog

that keeps them chill as a cucumber when you encounter other dogs or people.

Or knowing exactly how
to look and stand with your pooch

when you open your door so that it acts like it literally couldn’t care less about what is happening.

How Losing Control of a Pack of 36 Dogs

Transformed Everything I Know About Dog Training

I’ve loved and studied dogs for my entire life, and it was this passion that led me to open my own dog daycare business more than ten years ago.


In my second year in business, torrential rains brought in tons of new daycare dogs, and the manageable pack of 15 I had had up until that point suddenly swelled to 36 maniacal furry beasts who were literally bouncing off the walls.

Black Dog

They were lunging, jumping, barking, scratching, attacking, and defecating!

None of the traditional training modalities I had been studying were successful in calming or controlling a pack that size. Instead, they inflamed the energy of the room, making the pack even more hyper and unpredictable.

Sitting in my office, taking a moment of reprieve from the noisy pack, I heard a bang, a squeal, then silence. The sound sequence frightened me sober and unexpectedly brought me into a state of pure presence. When I entered the main playroom to investigate what happened, I saw everything with a Beginner’s Eye.

Suddenly, the voice in my head quieted, sounds became clear, and I could feel the dogs’ emotions as if they were my own. I observed that they were all communicating with each other. Henry, the old golden retriever, yawned, not because he was tired, but because he was making a signal to relax the puppies’ energy. Marge, the Shih Tzu, always looked away from others when she peed, not because she was shy, but because this angle tells the other dogs to give her some space and peace.

I realized that dogs are always doing quirky little gestures on purpose to create sophisticated emotional reactions in one another.

The realm of feelings is where true animal communication takes place. By using specific angles, postures, timing, and sounds, dogs (and other animals) have their own vocabulary that humans have never tapped into.

Communicating with pets using this “Non-verbal Language” meant that the dogs suddenly understood exactly what I wanted them to do. Rather than spending all my time training them, I could simply talk to them in their own emotional language and know they would behave. In a single day, the Secret Language of dogs generated results for me that were hundreds of times better than the conventional methods I’d been studying.

Soon, I was connecting to my pack, effortlessly transforming over thirty “bad” dogs at a time into zenned-out, obedient pets. My clients started asking me to help them with private training, and the effects they experienced were stunning.

Doggie Stay

They were simply attuning themselves to their feelings and to those of their dog — and with a little effort and guidance, they saw that most of their dog’s bad behaviors originated when their pet felt too excited or scared.

As my clients mastered the Secret Language, they found their dogs started to treat them differently, respecting their owner’s presence and listening to their authority. 
My clients were able to connect emotionally to their dogs and do all kinds of remarkable things with their pets as well. They could open the front door, and not only would their dog not attempt to escape, but it would also calmly fan away from the door and lie down. They learned how to walk their dogs with a loose leash, and some of them with even no leash. When they called their dog, it listened.


My clients began trusting their dogs more, and they also became calmer, wiser, and more compassionate in the process.

My mission is to help YOU have this same powerful relationship with your dog — and create the emotional 
connection that will transform BOTH of your lives. 

Ready to learn how?

The Peaceful Alpha
Mentorship Program - $1000 USD

Results within 10 days or your money back//

8 private Video Coaching Sessions //

Customized Course Curriculum for you and Your Dog //

Includes One Year of Access to me


Module 1: The Dog Language Dictionary

Learn How Your Dog Talks
A complete playbook of all the things that dogs say and what they mean so you can get on the same page!

Tools and exercises

  • Dog Language Dictionary​so you don't have to guess what your dog is saying, thinking or feeling ever again

  • Dog Owner Meditation to help you become familiar with observing your dog’s behavior

  • Enlightened Training Exercises​that will help you and your dog communicate

Module 2: Masterful Body Language

Speaking With actions

Control your dog's emotions, control their behavior!

Learn the different applications of body angles and eye contact so you can make a scared dog feel safe, an excited dog feel calm, and an obedient dog feel as peaceful as the Buddha.

We’ll also explore common do’s and don’ts that will help you grow and fall into a deep connection with your pooch.

To do this, we’ll use the following tools and exercises:

  • The Forbidden Angle​- learn what humans always do and why you should never do this... unless you want a bad dog

  • Angle of Protection - learn what humans never do, and how if you start doing this one thing, you can keep your dog feeling calm, safe, at ease, and relaxed in practically any situation

  • Dog Owner Meditation to illuminate situations where these special angles come alive, so you can embody them in the present moment with ease


Module 3: The Sequence of Surrender

Your dog naturally transitions from standing, to sitting, to laying down, then putting their chins down

Your dog naturally transitions from standing, to sitting, to laying down, then putting their chins down. 

  • Sequence of Surrender Guide to help you identify it, speak to it, and ask your dog to do it for you.

  • Guided Meditation so you be the vibe you want your dog to embody.

  • Enlightened Training Exercises to teach your dog to be able to surrender anywhere!

Module 4: How to Say no like a Boss

What is resource guarding, and how you can do it without creating a conflict

 tools and exercises

  • Asset Ownership Checklist to show you what your dog values, how to set limits, and how to stop being a dog-pleaser. 

  • Guided Meditation​- So you can become confident, powerful, gentle and loving at the same time.

  • Exercise:  How to put a hot dog on the floor​and your dog won't dream of touching it.


Module 5: How to Protect Like the Boss

Your dog should be the VP of security detail around the house - not a lunatic sounding off a code red all the time.

How to Eliminate the Stress of Protection Duty

You’ll learn what your dog needs from you to feel safe and validated in your home.

  • Mastering Territory - how to become the boss of the security detail so your dog doesn't get stressed out when new people come over

  • Enlightened Exercises - so you can open the front door with ease: no escaping, no whining, no jumping or lunging.

  • Dog Owner Meditation so you can start to think like a true protector.

Closeup of a Black Dog

Ready to Join the Mentorship Program?

When you register, you’ll receive an email confirming your registration, as well as instructions on how to access your learning portal and set up your appointments with Jesse. If you have questions along the way, our team is here to help you get access to the content and ensure you get the most out of the program.

The Peaceful Alpha Guarantee

Enjoy this course risk-free for 30 days.   If it's not for you, no worries, I'll give you your money back, no questions asked... providing you completed at least 60% of the course and gave it a fair shot.


What my students are saying

We never trained our two teacup poodles. They actually didn’t even know their own names, had no manners, and ruled our house. I’m embarrassed to tell you what happened when we're out on the street and we see other dogs. My daughter told me about The Enlightened Dog Training videos and toolkits. Total game changers. I highly recommend this course for any dog owner. Next level communication. My dogs are much calmer and better behaved.  

Cele Pasternack

Playing Catch

Frequently Asked Questions

  • When will I have access to the material?
    You'll have immediate access to Module One, as soon as you join the program. The remaining modules will be released each week. You will have forever access to the course materials.
  • How much time should we set aside per week?
    Every individual will go at their own pace, but you should expect to set aside 2-3 hours per week to complete each module.
  • How long is the program?
    The program is 5 modules.
  • How do I ask questions or get feedback during the program?
    Submit your questions via email to

Why suffer through one more stressful, annoying walk with your dog when you can learn how to stop “bad” behavior once and for all?

It’s time to let go of traditional training methods for your pet.
(If they worked, they’d be working for you right now!)

What your dog REALLY needs is to have an owner who understands the signals it’s sending out ALL THE TIME. When you learn these signals and understand what they mean, you’ll quickly realize that your pooch hasn’t needed to be fixed of its problem behavior — it’s simply needed YOUR HELP to reclaim and maintain its relaxed, obedient nature!

The key to a loving and soul-satisfying relationship with your dog doesn’t start with your pet — it starts with YOU.

By learning how to communicate with your dog in a way that commands their love and respect, you’ll grow an emotional connection between you that will transform and enrich you both.

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